2024/09/15 12:00 AM Filed in:
Relationships | Spouse | CouplesIn "Influence, Not Control: Nurturing Healthy Relationships," the author discusses the critical distinction between influencing loved ones and attempting to control their choices. While feeling a strong sense of responsibility as parents and partners is natural, the piece emphasizes that true relationships thrive on support and encouragement rather than domination, citing scriptural references that highlight the importance of patience, long-suffering, and agency. By fostering a loving environment and employing effective communication strategies, such as active listening and Nonviolent Communication, individuals can create deeper connections that promote growth and mutual respect, ultimately enriching their relationships. Read More…Tags: Influence, Control, Communication
2024/09/01 12:00 AM Filed in:
Boundaries | CommunicationBuilding a strong relationship often requires reconciling personal boundaries with a partner’s sense of autonomy. In this post, I explore common scenarios where boundaries and personal beliefs collide, especially in marriage. Using examples, I show how deeply ingrained beliefs—often shaped by family upbringing or reinforced by religious teachings—can influence expectations and lead to misunderstandings. Rather than defaulting to passive compliance or rigid insistence, I suggest practical strategies for handling these situations constructively. Key steps, like open communication, mutual respect, and empathy, allow couples to honor each other’s individuality while nurturing a healthy, united partnership.
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