2024/12/16 12:00 AM Filed in:
Relationships | CommunicastionThis blog post explores the concept of passive-aggressive behavior, acknowledging its often vague definition and difficulty in identifying concrete examples. It defines passive-aggressive behavior as the indirect expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression through non-assertive actions and comments. The post provides a table categorizing passive-aggressive statements and behaviors, including dismissive responses, guilt-inducing tactics, subtle criticism, invalidation, deflection, and resentment. It emphasizes the importance of open communication and encourages readers to be mindful of their own behavior and to cultivate patience and understanding in their interactions with others. Read More…Tags: Communication
2024/12/01 12:00 AM Filed in:
Marriage | Communication | RelationshipsIn this post we'll explor the practicality and the centement behind marriage is 100%/100% from both partners. How to live this, not have unmet expectations, and to love unconditionally with boundaries (which sounds like an oxymoron). Read More…Tags: Marriage, Communication
2024/09/15 12:00 AM Filed in:
Relationships | Spouse | CouplesIn "Influence, Not Control: Nurturing Healthy Relationships," the author discusses the critical distinction between influencing loved ones and attempting to control their choices. While feeling a strong sense of responsibility as parents and partners is natural, the piece emphasizes that true relationships thrive on support and encouragement rather than domination, citing scriptural references that highlight the importance of patience, long-suffering, and agency. By fostering a loving environment and employing effective communication strategies, such as active listening and Nonviolent Communication, individuals can create deeper connections that promote growth and mutual respect, ultimately enriching their relationships. Read More…Tags: Influence, Control, Communication
2024/07/16 12:00 AM Filed in:
Communication | ExcusesDeflection and excuses are often mistaken for each other, but they have distinct purposes: deflection shifts blame away from oneself, while excuses provide reasons to justify one's actions. Both mechanisms can undermine personal accountability if left unchecked, leading individuals to believe their justifications are valid, which can strain relationships and breed resentment. To address these issues, promoting self-reflection, showing empathy, and encouraging accountability are essential. By distinguishing feelings from facts and involving individuals in problem-solving, we can foster open conversations and healthier interactions, ultimately supporting personal growth and more constructive relationships. Read More…Tags: Communication