You Can't Tell Someone You Love Them and Then Vote for Someone Who Will Hurt Them

This blog post examines the statement "You can't tell someone you love them and then vote for someone who will hurt them," arguing that it oversimplifies the complexities of love, voting, and political discourse. It highlights the limitations of reducing voting to a single measure of love and the dangers of using love as a weapon for political gain. The article emphasizes the importance of respecting diverse perspectives, acknowledging the complexity of policy decisions, and engaging in constructive dialogue across political divides. It concludes by asserting that true love should be resilient enough to withstand political disagreement and that fostering understanding and respect is crucial for a healthy democracy. Read More…
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Passive-Agressive

This blog post explores the concept of passive-aggressive behavior, acknowledging its often vague definition and difficulty in identifying concrete examples. It defines passive-aggressive behavior as the indirect expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression through non-assertive actions and comments. The post provides a table categorizing passive-aggressive statements and behaviors, including dismissive responses, guilt-inducing tactics, subtle criticism, invalidation, deflection, and resentment. It emphasizes the importance of open communication and encourages readers to be mindful of their own behavior and to cultivate patience and understanding in their interactions with others. Read More…
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The Myth of 100%/100% in Marriage: A Thoughtful Perspective

In this post we'll explor the practicality and the centement behind marriage is 100%/100% from both partners. How to live this, not have unmet expectations, and to love unconditionally with boundaries (which sounds like an oxymoron). Read More…
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Happy Wife, Happy Life


In this post, we explore the deeper implications of the phrase “Happy Wife, Happy Life”, examining how it can promote unhealthy dynamics by placing the burden of a wife’s happiness entirely on her husband. This perspective risks fostering resentment, dependency, and emotional imbalance. We suggest shifting to a more balanced mindset with “Joyful Spouse, Peaceful House,” emphasizing mutual respect, shared responsibility, and emotional support. Through open communication and equal partnership, both individuals can create a fulfilling, supportive, and loving relationship where each feels valued and empowered.
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Jealousy, Gratitude, and the Untold Stories Behind Success

Jealousy often stems from focusing on others’ achievements without recognizing the sacrifices and challenges behind their success. By reframing jealousy, we can see how traits we might consider disadvantages—like shyness, competitiveness, or even anger—can be harnessed for growth and purpose. Recognizing that every path involves trade-offs helps us appreciate the blessings and opportunities in our own lives. Instead of comparing, we can focus on magnifying our unique strengths, asking what God intends for us to do with what we’ve been given, and using gratitude to fuel our growth. This shift turns jealousy into inspiration and fosters fulfillment in our own journey. Read More…
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